"To repent means to resist the seductiveness of the sinful values and practices and to let the new order of God's reign be established in one's heart." ~~Miroslav Volf
In Exclusion and Embrace: A Theological Exploration of Identity, Otherness, and Reconciliation, Miroslav Volf challenges and instructs his reader to reconstruct a new way of understanding about how we live out the Kingdom of God among us. Thoughtfully written, carefully executed, the book deconstructs
conventional ways of understanding the relationships between
oppression, victimization, justice, and reconciliation, while
constructing new patterns of thought, inviting us to live in God-like
"vulnerable love."
Confronting the usual divisions of victim and perpetrator, Volf pointedly calls for the repentance of both parties, calling into account the conventional division of victim and perpetrator--one being "good" and the other "bad"--which enables the continuing construct of patterns of sin through the generations. The goal is reconciliation between the factions which is only obtained through forgiveness and an extension of grace.
Never having experienced firsthand the deep enmity between warring parties of nations divided against itself as Volf has, I have experienced the political unrest of the divisions between husband and wife, child and parent, and church member and leader. There may not be literal guns being shot and blood being split, but hatred and deep rooted bitterness abounds, given voice behind closed conference doors. Stubborn spirits, wounded by untold numbers of inhumane interactions, in relationships that were created to exemplify the Creator's love, now are stuck in pointing fingers of blame and hurt, exposing a battlefield as bloody as in any armed conflict.
"From a distance, the world may appear neatly divided into guilty perpetrators and innocent victims. The closer we get, however, the more the line between the guilty and the innocent blurs and we see an intractable maze of small and large hatreds, dishonesties, manipulations, and brutalities, each reinforcing each other. The more attentive we are, the more accurate the portrait of the Apostle Paul paints of humanity--of "all" from which "no one" is exempt (Romans 3:9, 20)--strikes us."
So what is God's call to us? What is our response when we are embroiled in our own wall building selves?
The Answer comes to first to us and then asks us the same.
Vulnerable love. Forgiveness. Extension of grace.
Our only access is through repentance.
I have sinned. I have failed.
Father forgive me.
Transform my heart. Free me from my bonds.
This is the power of the Gospel in all its glory, to change everyone, bringing the possibility of reconciliation and peace for all.
Volf is clear, however, warning us this reconciliation is not the final reconciliation but an on-going reconciling action until the final, complete reconciliation at the end of the age. Let us not be deceived like the disciples. The Messianic age is not a political reign, but a real Kingdom, which comes to all who dares live into Gospel of repentance and vulnerable love.